新生活

我度过了我生命中最激动人心的18个月左右，癌症的阴影一天天消退。在我看来，“与癌症共存”这句话给我带来了很多困惑和焦虑。

我患有癌症，而我体内有“Terry”（我对癌症的名字！），但自从化疗和缓解后，我的新生活没有癌症，我不应该与癌症一起生活。然而，为什么我每天都在思考它，从不失败？

当我接受治疗时，我有短暂的里程碑要瞄准，它帮助我专注于治愈：“一周后，我将完成三分之一;还剩下 5 袋化疗药;曼联 还有 2 场比赛;再睡 1 次“等。然而，在完全清楚后的头几个月，我感到奇怪的脆弱，

I was now free from The Christie for an entire month. Cancer sprang up so quickly it could do it again surely? That month passes and I'm onto three monthly check-ups. I aimed towards taking part in many different sporting events in 2012, not only to fundraise for The Christie, but also for my psychology: if I can run half marathons, 'Terry' can't be back. However, since getting engaged at the end of 2011 there was only one milestone on my mind, get to May 4th 2013 cancer free.

2013 was a massive year for me and my fiancée Soph. We actually planned our 'big day' on the final night of my stay at The Christie in August 2011. On May 4th 2013, we turned that dream into reality and felt truly blessed to have such an amazing family and group of friends to share it with. We celebrated in style with all the people that had been there for us through the tough times. This was our day in the sun! 2013 was certainly a year of celebrations, not only did we get married, we also moved house, my dad was 60, Aunty Pam was 60, Uncle Ed was 70, my sister Jess graduated and got herself a job at a great school….

Since the wedding, I haven't thought about cancer in the same way. I used to think about it because I would have a cough, an ache or pain, or I'd be checking everywhere for lumps. Over time I've learnt how to 'live with the burden and memory of cancer'. I feel a lot more positive about my future new life without cancer and I think planning and aiming for short and longer term events really helps, whether that is a sporting challenge, a big birthday party or a weekend away. Looking forward helps because you picture yourself in that place, putting yourself in a positive frame of mind. 'Living with cancer' will be defined in many different ways by patients.

At the end of 2013, we were rocked by the news that my mum's cancer had returned. She had breast cancer over 10 years ago, you'd think after that length of time you are rid of it for good? It has returned, this time in her bones which despairingly makes it incurable. The good news is that it hasn't spread to any vital organs and the oncologist says they can manage this, hopefully for many years. When mum lived with cancer the first time, as with mine, she saw an end in sight: the treatment will cure you. But this is different. I've spent a lot of time chatting with her over the past few months and I've seen a massive change in her frame of mind.

Understandably, at first she was totally devastated, we all were. Her mum died of secondary bone cancer so she had written off her chances. However the more we read and speak to the experts, the more positive we all are. She's started her treatment now at The Christie and has a plan for the foreseeable, she's looking to the future and well she should because….on the Friday mum came round to tell us about the return of cancer,

Soph and I also had news to share. I wasn't expecting mum to tell us what she did so we saved ours for a couple of days as we got our heads around another battle with cancer! We went round and dropped off a Christmas card, it read……

Dear Grandma and Grandad, Merry Christmas and can't wait to meet you! Love, Baby Smith xxx

Cue that beaming smile, tears, hugs and something to fight for, something to aim towards. Everyone was totally overcome, what a rollercoaster of emotion. Soph and I had the 12 week scan last month, and to see that new life, already having such an impact on the lives of others, made me feel so proud and humbled. We had been trying for a few months and had started speaking to Cath at The Christie about the damage cancer might have done to my fertility.

I can't describe that feeling when Soph did the test, we were like a child on Christmas morning, dancing around the house! A new life, it's a miracle! I especially wanted to write this blog for all the young men that are going through a battle with testicular cancer at the moment. I hope this story provides you with optimism and the hope that you can dream and get everything you want from life.

我在1978年被诊断出患有睾丸癌，在克服了被告知我患有癌症的最初震惊之后，我不得不接受这是一次改变人生的经历，我必须认真考虑我所有的选择。

我的未来是什么？这种癌症的存活率是多少？有哪些类型的治疗方法，治疗会成功吗？有很多事情要考虑，我很快意识到我需要家人和朋友的大量帮助和支持来帮助我度过这个困难时期。

手术后，我的顾问告诉我，我将进行二十次盆腔放疗，为期四个星期，中间有周末休息，在家真的很好。我很快就开始从我的治疗中得到副作用，我生病了，肠易激综合症（IBS），进食困难，发现很难找到没有恶心的东西吃，这在我接受治疗期间持续了一个月。我瘦了很多，而且很累，当时没有卫生专业人员的支持，所以必须充分利用你的副作用，幸运的是情况发生了变化，今天有更多的信息可供患者使用。

我的雇主非常同情我，我在完成兼职治疗三个月后开始重返工作岗位。我认为这是非常有治疗作用的，对尽快恢复正常非常有帮助。

所以这把我带到了现在，自从我从我的顾问那里得到所有明确的信息以来，今年已经三十年了。我过着非常积极的生活，包括打高尔夫球，以及克里斯蒂的志愿者，我最近因在帝国战争博物馆北部的志愿服务而获得了十年服务奖，我还在邓纳姆梅西的国民信托基金会工作，在夏季担任房间指南，

我感觉非常积极，我不允许我的（IBS）控制我的生活，就像我控制它一样。虽然我确实必须服药，而且我的全科医生非常好，但我必须做的一些事情，比如我的饮食非常重要，我必须在某些时候吃正确的食物。近年来，我也戒烟了，除了圣诞节和新年之外，我必须注意我喝了多少酒。

我希望这个推荐对任何访问本网站的患者都有用，并对你的癌症之旅有所帮助。

电影明星

今年早些时候，当我的言语治疗师珍妮丝·朗（Janice Lang）邀请我出演一部代表曼彻斯特克里斯蒂医院制作的电影时，我非常高兴地答应了。五年前，我在那里接受了放射治疗，对我所受到的礼貌和照顾印象深刻。因此，如果我能以任何方式回报他们，我愿意这样做。

我的一个声带被诊断出患有癌症，因此需要手术切除我的声匣。这是在2007年9月进行的，不是在克里斯蒂，而是在伯里的费尔菲尔德医院。那里的所有工作人员，包括外科医生，都对我很好，但是，在12月初的一个寒冷的早晨，当他打电话给我丈夫时，我的眼神突然变得明显寒冷。

他告诉他，我在顾问的例会上被讨论过，我的肿瘤科医生说，他认为对周围组织进行为期一个月的放射治疗是可取的。在住院一个月和每天上诊之间做出选择时，我选择了后者。因此，在新年过两天后，我并不真正明白即将发生什么，我们开始了清晨二十英里的跋涉，前往克里斯蒂。

幸运的是，在费尔菲尔德医院和北曼彻斯特医院从放疗和定期检查的影响中恢复过来后，我终于在 2012 年 10 月被告知不再需要我的存在。万岁。

Off Like a Shot 'Could you attend with your friend Philomena (who is also a laryngectomy patient) at the Bali Health Spa in central Manchester where the filming would take place?' We were off like a shot. It was bitterly cold day that day too in late March, but the warmth of the reception we received more than made up for it.

The film crew were unloading their equipment when we arrived and the narrowness of the street had ensured the inevitable honking of horns. So, when my husband completely blocked the street to drop us off it was like a fanfare for the famous. Once inside, we were greeted by Ben, representing the Christie and Damien from the film production company. Both were charming young men who introduced us to Karen a fellow laryngectomy patient who would also appear in the film with us. Her bubbly personality combined with Philomena's leprechaun wit was just right to lighten the proceedings.

Three young lady therapists had been assigned to look after us whilst we were "interviewed on camera" - Beyonce eat your heart out! The white toweling robes didn't do much for our film star image but the head and neck massage that followed was very pleasant indeed. After that we tried to resist the tea and cakes but couldn't, telling ourselves they were a vital accompaniment to the gossip that we then indulged in. Our contribution would form the last component of a three part film aimed at giving as many cancer patients as possible the reassurance that the disease can be survivable or 'lived with' whilst enjoying an acceptable quality of life.

Terms such as "survivorship", "living with and beyond cancer" and " mind and body," all of course, tremendously and seriously important themes in the film, were being used, but by this time we were in full 'diva' mode and encouraged to tell it 'our way'. The Premiere Then in mid -July it was time for the "premiere". The film would be shown after dinner, on the big screen at the Manchester Conference Centre and we were invited. So, in best frocks and with the excitement unbearable, we attended with some forty or so others including Janice our Speech Therapist.

All had been involved to a larger or lesser extent in the making of the film. They included six other "stars" who had appeared in parts one and two. They were all such interesting people and included a sculptress and a professional musician. The stories of how they had coped with a variety of cancers were a humbling experience yet much of the evening, including during the showing of the film was filled with laughter. Alas, inevitably, much of my performance - and I expect that of the others - had fallen to the cutting room floor.

No offers of a contract have yet been received. The following week, and in glorious weather, we attended what can be best described as a 'garden party' held in the Conservatory and among the rose beds at the Christie. It was the launch of the new website and the introduction of the film to various professionals, volunteers and patients. Dozens attended, and doesn't it make such a difference when the sun shines? Conversations and banter tripped lightly through the next three hours before it was all over and I returned home to get the washing in. The film has been so professionally prepared, and the message it contains so reassuring, that I would recommend everyone to take a peep. It can be opened on the above website or viewed on YouTube.

We all long for clarity of understanding of our disease but this usually eludes us. The consultants necessarily trim off the clinical complexities that would only confuse us, and instead try to leave us with a clear- cut idea of the treatment that will help, and even cure us. We then ponder on all that has been said and search for the answers, the ethics, and the morality that has allowed this 'thing' to invade our bodies. But the inevitable 'why me?' always remains unanswered. Although I was told I had the classic 'smoker's cancer,' I had never smoked in my life. Although feeling clean of the guilt of having caused the cancer myself, it didn't help. The nasty complexities of real life don't allow for it. There was nothing I could do to cure myself.

The question was how I could survive until the experts could get rid of it for me. Hard to be Positive Developing a positive frame of mind did not come easy. My brain had gone to work and come up with nothing but negatives. The more ill I felt, the more desperate they were. My own method was to try and feel happy about everything else in my life such as my home, my life-style, my three sons and their families, and of course, my ever-supportive husband. I did not actually sit down and make a list of all the good things but I wish I had. I hope that you will think our little film is a good thing too. I think you will. Hazel Barker, The Oldham Quiet Ones Club

这不仅仅是关于生活;这是关于生活质量的。

对我来说，被诊断出患有直肠癌最可怕的事情之一就是，首先不知道自己患有任何描述的癌症——这就是为什么当我被告知时如此震惊的原因。我以为我很好地应对了这个小小的启示，“好吧，癌症——我可以打败它！”这是我的思考过程。我可能很天真，但因为我真的不知道自己生病了，所以我认为癌症并没有那么严重。我不害怕死亡，因为它似乎是一个不切实际的人，所以我的心态是好的，所以我们从这里去哪里——我想继续我的生活，而癌症只是这条路上的一个颠簸。

我上述道路的岔路口是在听到我的治疗方案时出现的——根治性手术导致永久性造口终身或大约 12 个月的生命（肠癌圈子里被称为袋子或盒子场景）。我没有想过真正患上癌症的后果，我以为我们会把它取出来，分道扬镳。Radical Surgery 甚至没有进入我的意识，我唯一感兴趣的 Bag4Life 是我一起去 Tesco 的那个！我计划活下去，据我所知，顾问外科医生也想帮忙，但是几乎没有想过一旦挽救了我的生活会是什么样子。我当时只有 31 岁，有女朋友，但还没有孩子，更重要的是，我非常依恋我的 ar*e。幸运的是，我完全避开了恐惧，直奔“你怎么敢！”说不，我想要第二种意见。

这个决定给了我我认为在我生命中最重要的时刻被剥夺的东西——时间！我确实离开了并得到了第二意见，我确实在利物浦附近的克拉特布里奇癌症中心找到了一种叫做Papillon的治疗方法。这个决定是 10 年前的 6 月，我仍然在这里，仍然可以坐在马桶上阅读周日的报纸，所以考虑到我只有两个选择——袋子或盒子，这还不错！

从癌症中幸存下来是当务之急，但对癌症本身的恐惧会阻止你花时间真正思考癌症之后的生活会是什么样子。我仍然有一些来自我接受的放疗和化疗的副作用，我仍然做了显微手术;所以相信我，当我说我选择的道路并不容易时，但这是我的道路，而不是外科医生。如果我使用永久性造口，我的生存途径看起来会大不相同，并且随之而来的是它本身的一系列副作用和并发症，无论是身体上还是心理上。不管怎样，你的决定必须是适合你的正确决定！如果他们及时发现了癌症，并且正在谈论治疗方案和发生时间 - 你应该要求时间考虑你想发生在你整个身体上的事情，而不仅仅是医生似乎如此关注的小肿瘤。

今年是我的 10 年，我很高兴也很幸运能活着，自从生病以来做了一些伟大的事情，但回顾过去，我一生中最自豪的时刻之一是我控制了自己的未来，没有屈服于对 Big C 的恐惧。我不反对手术或造口，我支持选择，现实情况是，您将不得不忍受与您的癌症护理有关的任何选择——我宁愿这个选择是我的。

致BRIRS团队

在与你和你的团队一起度过了非常令人振奋的两天后，我刚刚回到家中。我对你们提供的治疗和建议感激不尽。言语似乎不足以表达我对所有建议的感激之情，这些建议有助于正确看待许多事情。

虽然每位专家都很棒，但我要特别感谢 Paula、Julie 和 Tracy 为缓解我的淋巴血症问题提供的宝贵帮助。在我年事已高的时候，我不认为还有人能做的更多，但他们给了我新的乐观。未来，我已经采纳了他们的所有建议。

我下周要去看我的肿瘤科医生，并很高兴告诉他最近的发展。再次感谢您所做的一切，并祝愿您在与其他患者的合作中一切顺利。带着一切美好的祝愿，帕特·卢埃林

被诊断出患有胃癌后 18 个月

我即将讲述

的故事 关注一个可怕的癌细胞

不比指甲大，

但比里氏量表更危险

现在，在我开始之前，我必须承认：

太多的担忧只会导致压力

，

所以在被告知我有肿瘤时，我诉诸了我的幽默感

积极的态度可以消除恐惧

连同八品脱啤酒

所以如果你相信我是 teetotal

请把这首诗当作轶事

我还没到退休年龄

当这些症状出现时，我开始打

嗝、打嗝和感到腹

胀 去找我的同事投票的医生

我过去四十年的

医生 只是给你药片，希望它能清除

幸运的是，他随叫随

到，所以我看到了一个在球上的位置

结肠镜检查是你需要

的 一想到它就让我出汗

如果你同意

，再做一个测试 我们会送你去做内窥镜检查

USHM 是您要去

的地方 如果您不知道

的话，它是一所教学医院 它以其声誉

而闻名 没有比这更好的手术场所了

I was told to strip and wear a gown

An enema would help me settle down

To add to my tails of woe

My backside was all on show

Following the irrigation

The camera did its exploration

The doctor told me there and then

It seems all clear - I said Amen

A short time later I returned

Still uptight and a tad concerned

A camera down my throat would find

More problems than an exposed behind

The Doctors face told me the answer

I knew I had the dreaded Cancer

The nurses gave me their support

As the doctor read out his report

The news you hear becomes a shock

The C word causes a mental block

The biopsy may show us more

I then turned white and almost swore

You are left alone with an Orange drink

To compose yourself with time to think

I don't do drugs, drink or smoke

So why pick on me I'm a healthy bloke

You have pent up anger and frustration

Before you attend your consultation

I met my surgeon Mr Welch

And told him how I still burp and belch

He is the most amazing man

And in layman's terms told me his plan

No hospital jargon to make me worry

Just calm precise and in no hurry

My tumour on a scale one to four

Was touching three but at worst no more

So with chemo and a slight loss of weight

The best cause of action was to operate

A total gastrectomy is what we recommend

He knew I didn't fully comprehend

So to ensure I was in no doubt

That's all your stomachs coming out

Chemotherapy will help prevent it spreading

So off to Christies you'll be heading

Pumped full of drugs may sound gory

So well leave the chemo for another story

12 weeks later I was all prepared

And can honestly say I wasn't scared

You put your life in one mans hands

And I was already making future plans

The theatre team were all first class

But I am sure they gave me laughing gas

I woke up in I.C.U

All unsung heroes that nursing crew

My partner for the past eight years

Was by my bedside in floods of tears

I woke up from the surgeon's knife

And asked her quietly would she be my wife

I had tubes in every orifice

But managed somehow to steal a kiss

My daughters both full of stress

Could now worry about there wedding dress

A4 was my surgical ward

And for the next 10 days I wasn't bored

A high standard of nursing care

Was there aim which they achieved with flair

Physiotherapy may be a touch sadistic

But the support I got made me optimistic

6 weeks later I was feeling brighter

Back at work and 2 stones lighter

Gastro Reflux can be a side affect

And toilet issues you may expect

But we are lucky if all we fear

Is nausea and a bout of diarrhea

Some experts will try to claim

That instant meals is part to blame

The truth is no one knows for sure

The causes still remain obscure

Now in trying to keep it short

I've missed thanking people for their support

The dietarians kept on repeating

There no substitute for healthy eating

Chew food and eat more slowly

Is sound advice from Tina Foley

Both Fran and Tina are special nurses

That deserve more than just two verses

There knowledge and positive attitude

Should count for more than just gratitude

So at the next support group meeting

My sincere thanks I will keep repeating

The nurses and the Registrars

Have so much patience all were stars

But to those I would give Champaign

Are the loved ones who kept me sane

I know that cancer sometimes kills

But so do cars and sleeping pills

So don't let cancer get you down

Be upbeat and remove that frown

Be positive and have ambition

Don't fret is it in remission

It's not just with this disease

That you will receive no guarantees

Light hearted humour I maintain

Relieves the worry and eases pain

So as patients we can do our bit

And assist the surgeons to make us fit

The moral of this story shows

Although we still have highs and lows

Laughter, smiles or just a grin

Will ensure the C Word cannot win

Chemo and its side effects don't believe all you read

Another poem by John Rothwell

Chemotherapy for twelve long weeks

Has side effects with troughs and peaks

It taught me tolerance and resolution

But played havoc with my constitution

It's not easy to guess or predict

What traumas the medication will inflict

But for those with low blood cells

Expect flu like symptoms and dizzy spells

Nausea and vomiting must top the league

With hair loss followed closely by fatigue

Toilet issues may not escape I fear

With constipation or even worse diarrhoea

Your skin and nails become dry and sore

You wonder just what's next in store

Its stress, anxiety and deep depression

No wonder your sex life goes in recession

Your taste buds suddenly start to change

the food you like becomes weird and strange

Short memory loss becomes a fright

And insomnia keeps you up all night

I know I exaggerate and dramatize

Some might even call it telling lies

But no pain no gain is the only answer

To get rid of this bloody cancer

如果你正在阅读这篇文章，你可能还记得被诊断出患有癌症的震惊。

但你现在渴望恢复正常，把这一切抛在脑后。我也是一样：那是2010年的春天——一个绝对美丽的春天，天气很好，比预期的要温暖得多。对我、我的丈夫和我将近三岁的儿子来说，这是一个特殊的时刻。

我们最近搬进了我们自己的第一所房子，我们期待两周后有一个新宝宝。生活是尽可能完美的。然后癌症来袭了。我记得从医院回来——诊断结果原始而令人难以置信——看着那些被困在高峰时段交通中的通勤者，已经与几个小时前我所说的正常状态相去甚远。我真的很想坐上其中一辆车——一个刚下班回家的普通人！

就目前和来年而言，正常是遥不可及的，但我下定决心，如果我设法完成为我准备的所有治疗，我将举行一场盛大的庆祝活动来纪念这一时刻。只是八个月后，当我从另一端出来时，我不想庆祝。我刚出生的儿子的第一个生日来了，我泪流满面，被恐惧、担忧和遗憾撕裂。然而，我们强迫自己庆祝——每个人都在期待它。

难道我没有接受过治疗，而且从各方面来看，都非常成功吗？尽管如此，我难道没有一个漂亮的宝贝儿子吗？为什么喜悦和宽慰没有传达给我？

也许此时你只是在摇摇头，想着，她到底在干什么。也许你实际上处于庆祝的心情中，现在你被认为是一个幸存者。如果是这样，恭喜你！但是，如果我所描述的内容为您敲响了警钟，我想向您保证，它不会无限期地保持这种状态。更重要的是，你可能正处于挣扎之中，最终会让你变得更强大，更注意你需要从生活中得到什么。

当我在医院住院期间遇到的一位男护士问我：“那么，到目前为止，您的癌症之旅如何？我本来可以打他一巴掌的。我感到很痛苦，好像我卷入了某种光荣的自我发现之旅，我会觉得与他人讨论很舒服。然而，事后看来，我可以把发生在我身上的事情看作是一段有意义的旅程。我不是简单地回去加入“正常”人的高峰时段交通拥堵，我真的觉得这次经历改变了我。我更坚强，更自信，更快乐，更关心自己和他人。

我爱我的小家庭;我喜欢工作——生活尽可能地完美。我希望你很快就能说同样的话。

嗨，我是苏，这是我的故事

好吧，无论如何，癌症部分。在感觉不适一段时间后，我被诊断出患有阴道癌，不知道你会在那里得癌症！好吧，我知道什么？事实证明，癌症有很多种，一年中的几天就有多少天。相信我会得到一些不同的东西，一种几乎让每个人都感到尴尬的癌症，就好像对话已经不难了一样。一些朋友和家人发现对付癌症已经够难了，更不用说不得不使用阴道这个词了！

但问题是，得到诊断实际上是一种解脱，现在我们（我和加里）可以继续处理它了！好吧，来吧......

首先是治疗。手术不是一种选择，那是一种痛苦，我只是想把它切掉，摆脱它，但这不可能发生，太好了。同时进行六周的每日放疗和每周剂量的化疗。试图查找信息和统计数据、存活率等并不好，因为当时这些信息根本不存在，甚至在网上也是如此！没关系（仍然不重要），我们一次专注于每一天，度过这一刻，然后度过下一天。还有副作用？是的，我们被告知过它们，阅读了很多传单，但我看待它的方式是，等待并处理它发生时实际发生的事情，你永远不知道它可能不会发生！

这一切都是七年前的事了。是的，这是一段相当“的旅程”，对不起，这句话被过度使用！治疗有各种各样的副作用，包括片剂、泡沫、面霜，甚至进入减压室！不会让你感到厌烦，但它是可以处理的（这不是一个词，但应该是）！还有更多的调查和结果。那么，是什么让我经历了这一切呢？嗯，那里有大量的帮助和支持，从你身边的人到许多专业人士。他们在这里为我们服务，这有多好？

那么现在情况如何？好吧，我还在这里！！虽然我的生活发生了翻天覆地的变化。由于我的健康，我最终从校长的工作中退休了，所以突然间我离开了旋转木马，就像头晕一样，我花了一点时间才找到自己的脚。生活现在又忙碌了，但方式不同。我把活动分散开来，以免太累，有些事情（比如偶尔熨烫，如果必须的话）是坐着完成的，而另一些事情则为我做很多事情，我不必成为女超人！

有些事情我只是不做，有些事情就是不重要。巨蟹座有一种方式提醒我们什么是重要的事情。这个梦幻般的世界！（忍不住俗气）。拥抱我们世界的感官、声音、景象和气味。对我来说，这是布莱顿海滩上一片咸咸的暴风雨大海，泰勒在打开圣诞礼物时脸上闪耀着光芒，五颜六色的秋叶在我们秘密的格雷特纳格林婚礼上像五彩纸屑一样旋转的沙沙声等等。

但是，最重要的是，珍贵的，珍贵的人。家人、亲密的朋友、重访的朋友、同事、我们在街上经过的人，他们可能会微笑，那些我们尚未见过的人......

确实，这一切都在等着我们。这一直是我们余生的第一天，无论是否患癌症......而我一个人要去做，为什么不呢？！

来自 Penny Doyle 的问候，如果您正在阅读本文，那么您来对地方了。

如果你有点像我（那么上帝保佑你），在计算机和网站等方面，我不是极客.....它们对我来说都是狼吞虎咽的，但我希望这个网站能帮助你，即使是你甚至不知道你需要帮助的事情，只需点击几下。

可能我是通过与你们大多数人不同的路线开始这段旅程的。我在2011年6月中风，住院了3个月。同年8月，在所有扫描过程中，还发现我处于非霍奇金淋巴瘤的第四阶段 - 双重打击啊！

所以你可以想象我的丈夫、孩子、家人和朋友的感受。当我的化疗在2012年2月结束时，我很幸运能得到家人的关心和爱。我仍然认为这对他们来说更糟，作为患者，我们确切地知道我们的感受和应对方式，在许多情况下，我敢肯定这看起来比实际情况要糟糕得多。我曾经，在某种程度上仍然被棉絮包裹着。

所有这些爱都是那么令人放心，但我的生活现在已经完全颠倒了，我是应该照顾其他人的人，我是他们应该来找的人，开车-购物-做饭-洗衣和建议，而不是相反！对我来说，这是最糟糕的转变，因为我的丈夫和家人已经把所有这些家务都揽在了自己身上，我仍然很容易感到非常疲倦。我觉得我需要 - 不，Icravedto 与处于类似情况的人交谈。

所以无论你是谁，无论你经历过什么，如果你想遇到一个去过那里的人，并做到了这一点，有人向你展示彩虹之路，那么这条路可能就从这个网站开始。明天真的是你余生的第一天，我们很幸运能来到这里